love Give , love the company of

Talked about old times , we should to your children leave any legacy ? According to of Isaac the example , him and Esau between is love a story of , have each other service to be of . Otherwise, Esau his father not told him that 『 I am old , do not know the day of my death . Now take your equipment , that is, quiver and bow, and go to the field to for me hunt , as I love savory , bring it to me to eat, so I in his death give you blessings . 』

Today, many young people for children living , with a " device ", with a " quiver " with a " bow " to the field to " hunt "for the to raise them children , but did not bring it back , according to his children love for his children to eat. And the children a few years did not see a plane , the children of light know his father to make money. Parents would say we are suffering that , make some money can give you study, after there is great future it! We do not the children sent to their parents raise , raised by sending them to us, do not what memories .

Best memories is the family , when children were small , parents bitter , and no extra money, but the life savings , a lot of time is spent in the children who . We often think that wasting time with each other is wasted , which is today utilitarian thinking the most deadly place . Chinese people want to spend money , could not bear to spend time , if I this time did not make money , there is no for the future, plan even lazy. of all our The survival product are for the future , if now started , and now began to enjoy the results, or just for with the children a little fun 's time, the time and money consumed in the above there will be feelings of guilt , as if is not God property A good housekeeper. Indeed, as the future of the things you do not know how , it is better now and get my kids , but added interesting. No matter you are how busy , the time is still there. May play a different way , but you have to spend time with them , you know Isaac was old with him child to speak this sentence is written in the Bible . They both between have a special relationship his son, fully aware of his father loved what he father knew called the son to go out his loved to fight back to do for him , this is among them a very valuable , do not to outsiders know Understanding , when they are young , you have to the effort spend in, spend time with children together , the elderly will have a harvest.
Also it is valuable is that of a father to the old age , you can the children tell come to this speech , when you father and son between the relationship be quite good , a lot of father and son , "hey I say nothing , you have to remember my father's words , you will come. " "

Ecclesiastes , " the final chapter to tell us , You took advantage of young, decline the days of has not yet come , is what you Said, I have no pleasure in them years draw nigh , before the , when remember made you the Lord . 』 what remember made your master ? Not only to the service to be , not just to work. Remember made you the Lord ---- including remember God has given us the children , I them teach responsibility , love of responsibility, training the responsibility of , these things can not wait for you trembling , with gas song Body, anything do not move , think about coming back penance that is impossible. Than taking advantage of young, as long as you have a little bit of time , there is a little bit of power when and children together, cherish this the Lord hath given us treasure , in your old age will not regret it!

of two ordinary people The success of the marriage

Hayes is a sixty -year-old Danish man, little man , clothes do not pay attention to , his face the facial features of rude , walking legs crooked , say no , what is the grace to look to know he is a Not highly educated people .

In the evening , he went to Copenhagen 's main station , towards selling in Denmark hot dogs the stalls around , intention to where the eat a hot dog , drink a bottle of beer will go home to watch TV , save at home for dinner , which has long been His years of living habits, because he is a widower , and his five sons are already married . His nature quiet , do not like with people dealing , but also to loud family gatherings , he used to lonely way of life, did not change living alone the idea of .

Hayes normally did not see a woman 's habit, but I do not know today is the what reason, his eyes suddenly by a woman attracted . The woman's age, about 40 early, like looked sweet, very kindly , and her voluptuous, tall with Hayes about the same. She was carrying a heavy box , difficult in of people a pair of struggle the line .

Hayes has always been not public places to help women busy , or to a woman courting . But today he did not know by what external forces the impact of , making him the first time ever went to the woman 's side , said: "Your box so heavy , let me help you , okay ? "

The woman was tired out of breath , that who came to help men so polite smiles thanks to him. Hayes and make an exception invited the lady to sit down drink a cup of coffee. in their conversation Up , they found they had a no explanation attractive.

who woman called the Valley Li is a living alone for many years woman. She was very young married once , Jiehun after found her husband is an alcoholic , who, whenever drunk , back home we should Xian Weifeng , his wife punched and kicked. Gu Li finally could not bear to leave her husband. she Since then marriage is not interested in , no children. Her career is a midwife , income sufficient her independent living.

Hayes , and Valley Li in the understanding of the very short period of time , the two got married . Gu Li family spawned a small , on the marriage no comment . However, Hayes 's five sons together, strong opposition , accusing the Valley Li to marry their dad just to latter's money. In fact, Hayes life ran a shoe repair shop after retirement in addition to pensions, the only property is only a small house, where the claim to be rich!

Hayes and his sons feelings should not have good , and now they should oppose him to remarry , so he altogether , and five sons cut off relations , we are not in contact . Since then, his life in the the axis of is valley Li , he did everything for Gu Li .

Hayes and Valley Li marriage was very successful , the two married as in the desert a result of long-term water and dry the cactus, Sudden rain moisture , even all bloom.

This is close to older men and the middle-aged women a successful marriage the basic reasons for : their first marriage the spouses of terror that they on the marriage have a sense of fear ; but they the second marriage chose the spouse the character of is exactly the previous spouse The opposite of , two marriages , like a world of difference.

Hayes young is very light married his first wife is a level of education very low of women , temperament strong , such as a razor , temper, violent such as the burning flame, face never smiling , at home, all things by she orders . She never called her husband 's name Hayes , but only to her husband's last name : " Head door, you should do this ! "" Head door, you do that! "

Hayes the day was his wife refers to East that West, but he dared not resist , he was afraid of his wife, as long as he the opening opposed , his wife would shout abuse , he had to quietly accept the wife's command.

Hayes 's wife had congenital heart disease , the situation is getting worse. Although his wife 's health is not good, they still gave birth to five children , all sons see Hayes is character want to a man of great . In this family , Hayes heavy responsibility , in addition to earn money to feed a family of seven , but also to at home, help the sick wife child care and housework , made even scolded. Five sons worship their mother , the mother but life is listening to , the mother is always right . So Hayes in his sons , where are not sympathy and moral support.

The does not drip joy of marriage , the pain level can be imagined. So when Hayes 's first wife fifties of a heart attack died when Hayes heart the was not sad , but as the discharge load.

In contrast, Hayes and his second wife Gu Li to live together days actually is full of incomparable joy. Gu Li, like an angel 's gentle and sweet. No matter Hayes what , Gu Li praised him: " ah! Little Hayes . You're talented ! that you will do , that you will do , and have done so well. without you , I can how to do it! "

Hayes mathematical minds great , a lot of numbers he was able to at once in my mind add up , the total number of never errors .

Valley Li light touched Hayes the cheek , his face showing worship the expression of , said: " Hayes , my darling , you're a mathematical genius! after these things by you take care of it ! You're doing than I am better a Hundred times . "

In the second marriage, at home the size of things but also by the Hayes -sponsored . However, he is willingly to do , so when the mouth is always a smile , finished feel satisfied , Gu Li praised him happy.

When these things reached Hayes 's five sons the ears of , the sons have whispered that the old man 's mind is too simple to be understood playing a game in the valleys Li led by the nose , always be used .

In fact, Hayes sons the idea of too innocent Valley Li was . Valley Li sincerely appreciate Hayes the character. He is honest , reliable, responsible, honest, and do not love hyperbole, temperament calm , temper , no drinking smoking and habit , industriousness, frugality , home, the size of the thickness of the transaction will be done. all this Advantage of is her in her first husband body that can not be found ; now she is in Hayes a person who find all for her dream to the advantages her of valuable extremely .

In addition to their in married life together harmony, their sex life is also surprisingly good. until Hayes eighties the time Gu Li of trusted girlfriend said: "We still every night make love . " girlfriend at first thought it Gu Li a joke , but Gu Li serious said : "It is true It! that did not leave ! "

Valley Li also Hayes frequented a small space to expand , with Hayes with to enjoy life some noble and beautiful things.

Copenhagen television orchestra weekly hold a free music show, the public can be obtained free tickets to hear music. Gu Li, like music , so seize this great opportunity , each week will and Hayes to the station listen to performances, rain or shine.

of last century 50's , commercial group travel yet in Denmark rise of . lively Gu Li figured out a way , she and Hayes bicycle to travel from Denmark south , Germany , along the village path , from Northern Germany go South , and then into Austria. Europe's rural farmers to earn extra money, like to in house plug a rental brand , so passing tourists stay. Gu Li can say a German, who along the way in which households at home spend the night in the evening eat a peasant women do rich dinner sleep , the morning of eat a delicious breakfast the road, really cheap , happy very .

Valley, Li and Hayes every year for once such a long journey , one to that is two three months. And seen lakes and mountains the beauty of , body full movement, acquainted with many foreign friends, but the cost is so cheap.

When these messages to Hayes 's five sons know , the brothers in gossip and get father to laugh : "I have heard the old man is now a certain cachet , even branded tie, also followed the woman to listen to classical music ! "

"Ha ! Ha! Ha! howling at the moon ! " another son laugh doubled up. "The old man must have been at the music hall asleep . "

"The old man is now the woman holding the nose , often to Germany . " have a son interrupted : " I heard he also learned a point in German , telling everyone says : poor old man ! "

Hayes worked hard life, in old age having a fit his , love him but for the he loved woman , the two enjoy the " magnificent sunset , "the brief good time.

Later, Gu Li cancer , she did not put yourself terminal illness the news of on is over ninety Hayes , because she did not want Hayes to worry about her , but she persuaded Hayes with his sons and the good.

When Gu Li after the death of , Hayes in life lost all interest , he suddenly felt tired , so tired, in the house lying for two days , the heart has stopped beating. he died When , his son and grandson who is standing beside the bed .

However, in Meyers 's eyes, the decades not between the son and grandson are all strangers. Death when he saw valley Li . In his eyes closed , he smiled and said: " ah! Gu Li , you came, and we can together go ! "

Hayes , and Valley Li are very ordinary people, but they are the ordinary environment, in an extraordinary economic conditions, the establishment of a sweet marriage, had a sweet day. Their first marriage is full of suffering, that the poor experience so they cherish the second time lucky in life the final stages of can find a warm love.

Who says love is young the patent ? The fact is that older people who more know how to love. The last Love is the most valuable , the most persevering and most sweet. above The Extraordinary story is a good example.

Beware ! Day sitting in front of the computer

Day sitting in front of the computer , see the antivirus software out of the "Update completed " dialog , there is always too much emotion . The Bible says : Do you want to update , renewed day by day . "We see ourselves every day , but can not see their updates . Fandao anti-virus software is the implementation of the firm .

Sitting in front of the computer every day , facing the entire network . He is like a net , the quest for people's life , the quest for the people of each corner and at every level . It shortened the distance between people . Far apart , not geese . End of the World Desperately in need Later he was driven people , and he has alienated the people, in close proximity, but do not want greeting , just like to use "finger " delivery feelings .


Network like a black hand , it was stated that the network like a prison , you would have come because of stealing wallets , and out of what would be the following . In fact, you can also interpret a network from scratch . How to understand what this would have a neutral , the key to see you are not neutral , see you how to use this network . As is now very popular in the network 's " human flesh search " , people relish . Netizens as they can through "human flesh search "just one , when the heroes of the good and punish evil . But who can guarantee that you will not be another use of it? Seemingly harmonious online world is no longer simple . As you look just that good Linjiaxiaomei .


Christians live in this world is complex . WTO should also be born both . We must accept the principle also be rejected . Network in the world of Christians is also true . On the one hand , you can preach the Gospel through the network , the network created its own . On the other hand , misuse of the network also will make Christians deviate from their faith .


Throughout the entire network in the world in which sex , and violence . This Christian is a great temptation and challenges. Bible 1 John said, because all things in the world , just as lust of the flesh , the eyes of pride and the pride of life , not of the Father , but from the world . Look at the fruit of Eve tempting because they eat off , and the entire human depravity . The temptation of pornography on the network is large, large amount of publicity the site , entice your senses . Especially young Christians. Timothy said , "You have to run from evil desires , with that pure heart for God and pursue righteousness , faith, love and peace . " mentioned in the Bible a very very special young man desires to escape , in the flood of passion Real world and cyber world is a good reminder .


How to avoid ? God first and have a wonderful life related . Let the Word of God fills our lives. Second, the proposal should not own room alone , including the Internet , often the case in the absence of supervision to do some things hidden . The Bible says: ' When you pray , go into your room , shut the door , pray to thy Father in secret and your Father who sees in secret will reward you . "People most likely to reveal themselves , including room , showing off the I . pray to God through the chamber and a better traffic , Internet you do not need . of course there are many to avoid contact with their less well site approach. regardless of How in God intently only to the eyes upon . we also ought to know that our Father God in the dark view .


Some of the popular online game , many people dreamed . Can not think of tea , rice can not , but the game must be upgraded . The preceding time , by a friend , at a place called "Happy Net " website presence for a long time . In fact, the game is simply the first time each day to their own virtual car stopped into someone and then stopping to earn virtual money to buy a good car . So we grab every day so bored of parking spaces , parking , make money . Another car, then stop . . . . Repeatedly engaged in a way . I always think that does not matter, because he will not delay a lot of time every day , skilled , or 10 minutes. I was afraid to miss a day every day . Deliberately plan a day before going to sleep about , today I stop it? Now think about the time in those who knew , my heart has slowly away from God. God said to the other gods instead of God , need to increase the suffering . Until his mother good reminder , I know their lives in the so-called " indifferent in the " loss slowly , slowly dry . Therefore resolved to give up , at the beginning is always some could not bear to those of virtual property is also the temptation myself. The Bible says , treasure where your heart is also what . That is right nothing wrong . Resolutely to put down eventually .


This is only a little experience, more often the network occupies our hearts , occupies the communication between us and God . Let our years of life lost in that little break , if break is not blocked , then the abundant life will dry up .

Dangerous man test

Men the temptation is often very dangerous , very deadly !

German poet Goethe (Goethe, 1749-1832), in his famous Faust (Faust) in the depiction of Faust and Marguerite to safely rendezvous , clandestine love affair , under the proposal to his mother Margaret Ecstasy Medicine and, behold, so manslaughter old mother, to send a punitive expedition 's brother was killed by Faust ; last Margaret even kill their own children !

Test because of the fatal man , brought the scourge of world , ancient and modern , can be found everywhere . Greece, Homer 's Iliad (Illiad) and Odyssey (Odessey) depicts a man to Helen 's beauty , expand the brutality of the endless war between nations , but also caused the famous Trojan Horse . In China, Wu Sangui for Chen Yuanyuan , cited Forces Entering Shan , Ming So perish .

Test because of the temptation , men can be disowned . Writer Hugo (Victor Hugo, 1802-1885) indulge their feelings , snatched her son 's girlfriend ; Concubine Yang was originally betrothed to the son of the Tang emperor , but was spotted lecherous Tang emperor , and even came up with the minister about She sent temples for the nuns out fraud , but is secretly her in his arms , and thus lead to internal and external Tang Dynasty , the last Rebellion , Tang Zhaoguo potential then plummeted .

Real people will face the test of love , no one exception , that is, the great Bible characters such as Samson , David , Solomon had the letter out of the test in the erotic . From the biblical view of man 's probing of the nature of risk , the most to help the twenty-first century, postmodern culture, because there is no eternal truth in mind , but easy to fall into the whirlpool in the men Faust .

First, test often occurs in a single self- satisfied Gu

Abraham and Isaac to protect their lives , lied next to a beautiful woman not his wife , which almost makes Sarah and Rebekah, by the unexpected calamities (see chapter create 12,20,26 ) ; Herod the king to meet with the Greek Rhodes physical craving , even killing the righteous John the Baptist (cf. can 6:14-29 ) . Paul told Timothy in the martyrdom of the former , there are many dangerous days of end of the world , such as " love of money , boasters, proud ... ... arbitrary , conceited , loving pleasure , not Venus , " and so on, these dangerous beginning , is " People will be lovers of themselves " ( Timothy 3:1-4 ) .

And so on , can be seen probing the nature of man . There are not many people do not love and respect , but to use violence towards their spouse having an affair to satisfy their physical needs? Economically, people do not have common damage to others ( or other creature) way to make themselves rich it? Politically, King Herod in Bethlehem two years old with children under scrap price in an attempt to save his position. Egyptian boy Pharaoh to kill Israel , Saul to kill David, so they are not required to meet the historical example of their own !

Second , testing often occurs in men when alone

The devil is often chosen when the test persons were alone . Faust alone on Satan when tempted . Clearly recorded in the Gospels , Jesus in the wilderness forty days and nights , the tempter came to test him on , the devil is in Jesus alone when it 's trick . Eve is not from God because of the weak , lonely hours in the devil 's tricks ? Potiphar 's wife is no other person, use sex to seduce a handsome man of Joseph ? Joseph is being used by the Lord , face life in four stages, the first barrier is the porn off ( and then difficult to pass, great wealth related , hate related ), are also hidden in his alone time . Paris Notre Dame Cathedral school principals, were theologian Peter Abelard, and Heloise were alone live on , and even made her pregnant , the result was her angry family castration, while leaving the monastery in the history of medieval tragedy ! Some of the dark places , not this evil breed of place? (See Rev 9:1-11 )

Test the law of the important spiritual victory , that is, pay attention to their time alone . Whether a person can be the primary use , how often is that he pay attention to their hidden time alone . Hide Moses in the wilderness alone for 40 years , was the God called out . The Israelites in the wilderness for 40 years is a tempering period . Cherith stream is spiritual practice where Elijah ; spiritual hotbed of John the Baptist in the wilderness of Judah ; no Arabic , Damascus , large numbers , Antioch and other places , there is no ministry of Paul ; Apostle John wrote Revelation in his exile on the island of Patmos , as Sima Qian's Historical Records written , John Bunyan wrote Pilgrim's Progress , as lonely heroes have become a hotbed for breeding . 4 -year battle with the Pope 's Martin Luther , because of hidden in Wartburg10 months after the change in the Catholic forces , theology . After the trial of Jesus after the lonely wilderness , into Galilee ministry period . Hidden test alone can hold people to beat this test can be used by the Lord .

Three men from the devil three tools easy

Once human beings after committing a crime , there is the instinct to pursue positions of power . Quaker author Richard Foster said: "The sin of the Garden of Eden is the power struggle of the crime . " Milton in "Paradise Lost" is mentioned , Satan is crazy for power , rather in the hell did the king , unwilling to serve in heaven . Since ancient times, Satan is the power of the most effective tools . Lewis (CS Lewis) in his " hell to David , "a book described , Satan can use any of the wrist to confuse the world , attracting many people only care about the powers of the earth , the eternal thing has completely ignored .

However, the devil is not only a tool used to confuse the people the right to pursue on the ground a short position in the last days of Revelation the seven bowls , devoted to depicting Satan right (power), money (money) and color (sex) to confuse people ( Participation Kai Chapter 17-18 ) . Goethe 's Faust pen , just these three tools are temptations of Satan , with all the bait , Dr. Faust , the devil describes three tools traveling all over the world , whether you are what class, race, educational background. If Nietzsche 's " of the twentieth century the value of the vacuum will be filled by the lust for power by " this sentence is correct , then the value of the twenty-first century, the vacuum will be power, money, color is filled !

Satan to mislead people who loves the world of power, money, color , not to let anyone know that the mind from the pursuit of God , are as ephemeral as ! The most terrible place of Satan , is to use the powers of the world pleasure to confuse people , they do not reveal this world of sin . To be from the devil 's temptation, people need to focus from the present (this world) turned to the eternal (next world)!

Fourth , men will fall into the temptations along the trilogy of crime

To the Bible to see how Satan tempted Jesus to help men understand the crime, three steps:
Lust of the flesh - the devil tempted him, turning stone to bread ;
Eyes of desire - land of wealth and status with the devil to tempt Jesus ;
The pride of life - the devil tempted him to jump from Dianding .
This criminal procedure , and Eve tempted by the same steps after the crime : " When the woman saw that the tree was good for food ( lust of the flesh ) , but also pleasant to the eyes ( the eyes of lust ), and is to be desired , To make one wise ( pride of life ) , she took some and ate it ; gave her husband and her husband is eating . " (Genesis 3:6 )

" Aesop's Fables " to remind the men , if not beware of lust of the flesh , the eyes of the passion and the pride of life , the consequences are often disastrous . In the story of Alibaba and Sishitaidao , when Alibaba happened to get into the treasure house of secrets Sishidadao - Open Sesame , it contained jewelry home the same night to his brother by the gauges to count . Unexpectedly , suspicion and jealousy of the sister was found , then anger Alibaba 's brother , strong treasury of the place was Sishidadao and password . Caimixinqiao 's brother , was going to a big move , I did not realize they forgot the password Open Sesame , the last death at the hands Sishidadao !

The temptation men are often fatal ! Men want to avoid the dangerous temptation, he must pay attention to :
1 , do not think that they can be spared ;
2 , look to increase their resistance ;
3 , not to boast the pride of life ;
4 , do not be physical desires control;
5 , do not indulge in the eyes of lust ;
6, usually make spiritual friend ;
7, so that all the test than the main gatekeeper for you

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Sorry, forgive me, I love you

Introduction : I think the best way to adjust the marriage , is I often use words. "I am sorry, forgive me, I love you. "There is a verse as well as strengthening the meaning of these three words , "My dear brothers , this is what you know. But let every man be swift to hear , slow to speak and slow to anger . "( Jacob Book Chapter 19 )
Body: Every missionary knows this truth. When two lives together , over a period of time, life would be in conflict . Each of us come from different backgrounds , different families have different temperament and different personalities ; there have been many adjustments to each other . Both sides must have an understanding heart and will to become a harmonious relationship between husband and wife .

Married couples will begin to realize that men and women 's views on the matter on different things . Obviously some things are important to women , for men is not that thing , and vice versa . They soon will find each other's habits , taste and love when the gap is much greater than love . If two people are very similar to every move , this marriage will soon be boring . God created us different, to make our growth process , can complement each other lack .

I think the best way to adjust the marriage , is I often use words. "I am sorry, forgive me, I love you. "There is a verse as well as strengthening the meaning of these three words , "My dear brothers , this is what you know. But let every man be swift to hear , slow to speak and slow to anger . "( Jacob book chapter 19 ) when a lot of couples have found each other is not the same, they may be depressed discouraged , and that their marriage is a terrible mistake . We need to understand that marriage is once again to sacrifice , And between husband and wife need to be adjusted . husband and wife before marriage is often easy to forget just how good and how much loving . In this needs to be emphasized is that marriage is God's plan, this plan will be in two lives merge into one . If Husband and wife seriously every day of marriage , the couple will grow, and in each case , the mutually complementary. It has been said so , " till you start living together with this person , you never really know Him . So the couple met is a marriage between the fun . "

Let me illustrate how marriage is like to operate. Have you ever seen the two standing in the river next to the river confluence it? two Road, rivers, one is cloudy , one is clear. Their confluence has a very significant line , turbid water and clear water, clearly separate . When you walk along the river , you will be surprised to find that in a short distance , all muddy and clear phenomena disappeared completely into one of two rivers . Combination of two lives in marriage is true . A perfect marriage is not too fussy , happy marriage is to slowly and quietly - but it will eventually have to come . Then life will be more than you have in common when there is no difference between superior and better and more solid . You have to excel and to overcome the differences between the two sides have fought a battle to overcome the self , life in the Lord Jesus Christ put together , this wonderful husband and wife relationship will bring you peace and tranquility.

If you are married , you will remember your partner before marriage, how to care for you , before marriage you will also try to make on the Fang Huanxin . But after marriage, it is easy to not take into account the life of politeness ; no longer say "I love you " "Thank God , I got you "and" You're amazing . " These exciting words gradually reduced while the husband and wife love one another with joy , but also with the etiquette of these important decreasing . Of course, this can not be attributed to one person. The wife and the husband bear responsibility for negligence . We should emphasize that the comforting words and encouragement necessary if a successful marriage . Keep in mind that between husband and wife to maintain gentle words and deeds and noble manners .

We have a love heart , but our hearts can not always accept the cruel treatment. Sincere heart and a warm home is like hardy plants , hardy plants need dew and sunshine Moreover ; warm family need kindness , gentleness , and humility to operate . In fact the couple have a warm heart full of love desire , love and cordial , but did not do many marriages . " Little children, let us not love with words or tongue . but in deed and in truth . " (I John proposals 3 : 18)

No one has the right and simply fun . Happiness is through loyalty to charge forward and sacrifice self to win . God is the synthesis of the two together through marriage . Only loyalty, bravery and sacrifice I can to bring happiness and joy of marriage . "Also in the fear of the mind of Christ , obedience to each other . "( Ephesians 5:21 )

Not to seek happiness should be our motivation , happiness is like the wind will change. Happy to comply with God from the will of God , then follow the results . " determined to act because you are God at work in you , for His good pleasure. Where the line , Do everything without complaining or arguing . " (Philippians document 2 : 13 ~ 14) of the Christian husband and wife , The marriage is two people who live a new life . Remember , marriage is like a triangle , the bottom two corners represent you and your partner , the top is God. When you closer to God , you two will automatically close ; when the two of you closer when both of you closer to God, also naturally . Then you will find that " because of the joy of the Lord is your strength . " ( Nehemiah note 8 : 10)
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Smart newsboy

ThatMakeLittle things such as selling newspapers , but also need strategy and skill . Any time as long as there own unique ideas , there will be a unique harvest .

Today, you tell the story of a smart newsboy , hope this little story , to increase your wisdom treat many attitude of life .

2 newsboy selling newspapers in the same region , the so-called peer adversaries , they constantly in the competition . The first newsboy very hard each day to peddle his voice too loud , just to sell newspapers without a second newsboy selling more , but the newspaper seems to sell less and less.

The second day, in addition to peddle newsboy but also adhere to certain fixed occasions . His first newspaper distributed to you , and then over money . Of course, some people are not paying then they are gone , but are few. Not too long , the first newsboy can no longer compete on the go , had to find another way of living has .

Also selling newspaper Why is there such a big gap? Fixed in the same area , on the same newspaper , the reader is limited customers to buy this one , we would not go out and buy another home.

The second issue newsboy to newspaper first , these people must get the newspaper will not buy someone else's newspaper . So he the first to occupy the market. He made the more the smaller markets also sell newspapers . Newspapers are one-time consumer goods, when most people buy are random , will not buy another return , but they do not need much money , as long as reading the newspaper will give you the money , so use the first and the second one newsboy Paper money issued after the strategy is very effective. Even if some people read the newspaper , do not give money , what relationship? There will always be selling some of the backlog reported , and since he had read the newspaper , they will not buy someone else's newspaper , or their potential customers , since there may be to buy their own newspaper .

Yes, even little things such as selling newspapers , but also need strategy and skill . Any time as long as we have their own unique creativity and ideas , there will be a bonus .

Whether in the workplace , or in other areas of life , as long as you can have many unexpected and creativity and wisdom, you will be able to better the performance of peers , superior , and can therefore stand up .

Eternal reward

We see this " Malachi , " the seventh question , Chapter 3 from 13 to 15 about " the eternal reward . "

13 Then the LORD said: " Your words have been stout against me , you said : ' What have we spoken so much against you?

14 You say , It is vain to serve God , to comply with God commanded , before the Lord of hosts struggling fast , what is gained?

15 Today, we call the proud happy , and those who do evil to build up ; though they test God , but was out of a disaster . '"

Here we again see the people 's problems . They said that serving God in vain. What is gained? From this " Bible "thought eternal reward .

Malachi has been mentioned many times people doubt God's justice, in the second chapter 17 of the people suspected of God is the God of justice , because they feel that the wicked deeds of God are not any violence at that time to punish them , teach Them, so people on the very joy that God is unfair . But this passage from another perspective, the people 's grievances in mind is why? Because God did not line his own good deeds and religious conduct an immediate reward them . Two separate point of view, God is not mentioned in front of the second chapter of the wicked trial , discipline them , they think God is unfair . Chapter Three people said we trip so much good behavior, we follow the law , God did not reward us, so God is unfair. God has so unfair , so line is not fair, you understand their confusion and the question mark it?

This " Bible " the people that serve God in vain , to comply with God commanded , before the Lord of hosts struggling fast what benefit from it? You see us line up so many good , God did not reward us, God is unfair. Since ancient times, such problems are often because of his life living in a number of good behavior inside the line , on expecting a good report , there is a reward , a blessing . This fall into a snare which is our belief that the religion with the religion of good behavior is profit to be able to exchange for the blessings in exchange for certain benefits . This is an idea people . He said that we serve God , we are hard fast , and we abide by the commandment , what benefit from it? So from this perspective , if we thought , in fact, this is a wrong thinking . Why? Religions in exchange for a reward and reward it? We do good , we obey the commandments , we serve God is to get the benefits with it? If we have such a concept , it not in the course of doing business there? Trading is what I give you , you give me what is the deal . Then people say, we give God good behavior, we fast , we abide by the law of God , we serve God , God gives us? This is one of their attitude . So the Prophet took God's mind is made , " Your words have been stout against me . " This is the thinking we have to take .

If faith is a transaction , doing good seek blessings , then the " Bible " by the revelation of faith and religion of all the world is no different. If by that time the people of the blame , compassion, their hearts to reflect , we can learn a lot of homework . When we look at the time the New Testament , we find that God told us that God will give us His Son , what should we do to change ? God said, I give you a son in vain , what can it be to you for such a salvation of grace then ? Basically in the Christian faith is not a sale and trading of God bestowed in vain , so he can not serve God , he live such a life, he asked a blessing of God , asked God to give him some good .

Us to use this " Bible " to learn the mentality of people thinking about . We look at the first point , chapters 15 , people have a dissatisfied , dissatisfied at the time they see the phenomenon . They say " evil people have to build up ; though they test God , but was out of a disaster . " This is the people 's discontent . In fact, there is one point which they accused the words of God, accused of harboring evil God , so they are not satisfied . This phenomenon still exists today , the community they have some wicked evil , or get out of the disaster , you can still enjoy a smooth pass , regardless of the various areas of the business community has the political existence of evil , Christians folder in which , a lot of the frustration many Of complaints , often Christians say , I do so much good , I kept myself , no greed did not steal , what benefit from it? This is the voice of our people now . From " Malachi , " this dialogue, we find that the people of this mentality , " the Bible " is contradicting God , we have to learn the mentality of preparedness why this contradict God ? God have mercy on us , not to fall into the same trap inside , we need a correct point of view of social phenomena.

Secondly , we need three chapters 17-18 learning , learning to establish a proper values . 16 to 18 days last days he mentioned . "At the time of each other to talk about fear of the Lord , the Lord hearkened, and heard , and a book of remembrance before Him , that feared the LORD miss his name. says the Lord of hosts : ' I set the day , they will belong to me, especially Special to me. I will spare them , as a man to serve his son compassion . Then you will go back to the righteous and the wicked , do not serve God and serve God , each other. '" So this " Bible "The fact is faith to help us build a doomsday outlook . He said, you know that God hath set a date , do not just look at what you see now days . That day is what day? 17,18 festival , said: " the righteous and the wicked , do not serve God and serve God's people were out. " God is inside of this day to do . So if our eyes fixed on such a God as inside, we know that God does not cover the present evil . We say that God harboring evil , this is the righteousness of God a great shame .

We return to this " Bible " which , he said that the wicked is short, he was a good , he seemed to be out of a disaster , but he has eternal punishment , such a life is not that we envy it? Benefit from this life the eternal punishment we admire it? We believe in eternal life , eternal life than this life if compared to longer-term it? Therefore, we can grasp the blessings of eternal life, this life than we earn the material is not more important? What to serve God 's people benefit from it? What reward do ? Although we serve God 's people can not price in value , the price measure, if our ministry has a price , then we serve the value of very small , because you serve has a price , in fact, that price is the label You serve the value. If you wait on the price measure, serve no value. " Bible "how to say? Serve God 's people and God has a very close relationship , " the Bible , " said he , " my jewels " , jewels to God , the same as the relationship between father and son . This is the " Bible " to serve God as a supreme supreme value, not price. We believe that this life godly people who serve , he gets the experience of God , he received God's chosen , God has put him out , respectively , which is the highest value in life . So do not let the price tag you get the value of your serve . Jesus how do you say ? Jesus said that if people wait on me, I will respect his father . He said a maximum superior value - God respect . God help us, we serve the process, "God respects us, " this knowledge to our awe , joy to serve Him , not to say that we serve God, what is gained? Do not ask this question. Because God was not pleased. God is willing to give us a father and son relationship so close a relationship , a blessing, may you experience God in serving them next to you , He like your father , He will respect you .

We pray :

Thank you Father , what kind of people we can actually get your respect , Lord, to adjust our minds and hearts so that we know we have salvation from your side in vain , in vain when we are rounding . Lord ah let us know we have you risk your life to serve , we should have a laid down his life for ministry . Every request you add strength to serve you, and our joy and happiness in the Lord 's ministry , and the more the more able to serve close to , the more able to meet you.

self-reliance by a peace

Growth, is to learn to make full use of the cup is half a cup containing the water , not waste energy complaining about why the other half is empty. By God to self-realization , the pursuit of growth are , are like a cup overflowing , more than joy ! In 1979, the 20 -year-old Hui Hong 's ex-husband and family beliefs because of love and marriage .

Divorced in 1999 . Two years of life , values, no intersection of married life, SUBWAY smells like a dream , passing between the trance , leaving only the ... ... Wai Hong former banker, has been enjoying the ordinary life of working people ; ex-husband As a teacher , she thought to be the most simple , but could not imagine that , bent on making huge profits from the business ex-husband is not the case .

Later, because of her ex-husband 's business expanded rapidly , the large scale , in northern Taiwan, the south a total of six stores . In this way, he increasingly arrogant, even to the original cause of business entirely to others , and my turn to other trades . The end result of poor management of the global economic downturn in 1994, the occasion , a flourishing career in the way he fell , and a chain , never led . At that time , my friends are do- regardless , he wants to restore the decline, is also too late ! Could not bear to see him battered , Wai Hong resigned bank , to help him deal with the financial , discovered many unusual expenses . He can not get away when the last grand vain habits , stretched the occasion , also paid high prices to participate in golf clubs .

Worse, his marital infidelity , family neglect . Ex-husband and another married outside , to his house like a hotel , would like to come back , come home , take a clean clothes , put dirty clothes left behind to benefit Hong wash for Hui Hong feel like a servant , not the slightest self-esteem . Hui Hong 100 000 ex-husband to the U.S. , with little to her son to the United States, and the original on the foster son at a friend's house to live with . He is not willing to cause peak period in the fall , still want to save the branch of the stock with a comeback . But he failed to concentrate on working hard , climbing the right attached only reimbursing you , squander the time and money.