Sorry, forgive me, I love you

Introduction : I think the best way to adjust the marriage , is I often use words. "I am sorry, forgive me, I love you. "There is a verse as well as strengthening the meaning of these three words , "My dear brothers , this is what you know. But let every man be swift to hear , slow to speak and slow to anger . "( Jacob Book Chapter 19 )
Body: Every missionary knows this truth. When two lives together , over a period of time, life would be in conflict . Each of us come from different backgrounds , different families have different temperament and different personalities ; there have been many adjustments to each other . Both sides must have an understanding heart and will to become a harmonious relationship between husband and wife .

Married couples will begin to realize that men and women 's views on the matter on different things . Obviously some things are important to women , for men is not that thing , and vice versa . They soon will find each other's habits , taste and love when the gap is much greater than love . If two people are very similar to every move , this marriage will soon be boring . God created us different, to make our growth process , can complement each other lack .

I think the best way to adjust the marriage , is I often use words. "I am sorry, forgive me, I love you. "There is a verse as well as strengthening the meaning of these three words , "My dear brothers , this is what you know. But let every man be swift to hear , slow to speak and slow to anger . "( Jacob book chapter 19 ) when a lot of couples have found each other is not the same, they may be depressed discouraged , and that their marriage is a terrible mistake . We need to understand that marriage is once again to sacrifice , And between husband and wife need to be adjusted . husband and wife before marriage is often easy to forget just how good and how much loving . In this needs to be emphasized is that marriage is God's plan, this plan will be in two lives merge into one . If Husband and wife seriously every day of marriage , the couple will grow, and in each case , the mutually complementary. It has been said so , " till you start living together with this person , you never really know Him . So the couple met is a marriage between the fun . "

Let me illustrate how marriage is like to operate. Have you ever seen the two standing in the river next to the river confluence it? two Road, rivers, one is cloudy , one is clear. Their confluence has a very significant line , turbid water and clear water, clearly separate . When you walk along the river , you will be surprised to find that in a short distance , all muddy and clear phenomena disappeared completely into one of two rivers . Combination of two lives in marriage is true . A perfect marriage is not too fussy , happy marriage is to slowly and quietly - but it will eventually have to come . Then life will be more than you have in common when there is no difference between superior and better and more solid . You have to excel and to overcome the differences between the two sides have fought a battle to overcome the self , life in the Lord Jesus Christ put together , this wonderful husband and wife relationship will bring you peace and tranquility.

If you are married , you will remember your partner before marriage, how to care for you , before marriage you will also try to make on the Fang Huanxin . But after marriage, it is easy to not take into account the life of politeness ; no longer say "I love you " "Thank God , I got you "and" You're amazing . " These exciting words gradually reduced while the husband and wife love one another with joy , but also with the etiquette of these important decreasing . Of course, this can not be attributed to one person. The wife and the husband bear responsibility for negligence . We should emphasize that the comforting words and encouragement necessary if a successful marriage . Keep in mind that between husband and wife to maintain gentle words and deeds and noble manners .

We have a love heart , but our hearts can not always accept the cruel treatment. Sincere heart and a warm home is like hardy plants , hardy plants need dew and sunshine Moreover ; warm family need kindness , gentleness , and humility to operate . In fact the couple have a warm heart full of love desire , love and cordial , but did not do many marriages . " Little children, let us not love with words or tongue . but in deed and in truth . " (I John proposals 3 : 18)

No one has the right and simply fun . Happiness is through loyalty to charge forward and sacrifice self to win . God is the synthesis of the two together through marriage . Only loyalty, bravery and sacrifice I can to bring happiness and joy of marriage . "Also in the fear of the mind of Christ , obedience to each other . "( Ephesians 5:21 )

Not to seek happiness should be our motivation , happiness is like the wind will change. Happy to comply with God from the will of God , then follow the results . " determined to act because you are God at work in you , for His good pleasure. Where the line , Do everything without complaining or arguing . " (Philippians document 2 : 13 ~ 14) of the Christian husband and wife , The marriage is two people who live a new life . Remember , marriage is like a triangle , the bottom two corners represent you and your partner , the top is God. When you closer to God , you two will automatically close ; when the two of you closer when both of you closer to God, also naturally . Then you will find that " because of the joy of the Lord is your strength . " ( Nehemiah note 8 : 10)
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