With the Right Attitude to the Break Up, You Can Still Get Your Ex Back!

This is easier said than done, I know, but if you want to get your ex back, then you have to be prepared to put in a bit of effort to achieve this. Although you feel as if your whole world is falling down at your feet, you need to be really strong and change your attitude. This is the one way that you can turn things around and possibly get back together with your ex again.

Your ex is expecting you to sit at home wallowing in self-pity - this is what usually happens to people after their relationship has failed. However, you need to show your ex that you are made of stronger stuff, and that you absolutely refuse to be dragged down into a deep depression because of the break up.

Okay, take a few days to heal a little - no-one expects you to be the life of the party so soon after you and your ex have parted company. But after that, force yourself to be in a happier frame of mind, and you might just succeed and get your ex back.

Now that everyone knows that you are single again, if you get invited out somewhere, then go. Get yourself dressed as if you are going out with a purpose, then do that, and enjoy every minute of your freedom. Don't even think of sliding back into a state of depression - keep telling yourself that it will NOT help your situation at all.

If your friends are doing nothing that really gets to you, then find something else to do that will keep you busy and make you happy. Of course your ex will get to hear all about this - and this is great - he/she has to know that you are not waiting around until he/she is ready to talk to you.

By this time, you will be totally over the break up and ready to handle anything that comes your way. If your ex makes contact with you, be friendly, but don't be available. He/she must understand that it is not the be-all and end-all of your existence to get your ex back.

Wonderful God

My wife and I also do not understand each other two times , for example , my wife does not always understand why I can read the two teams do not like how the match ; and I really can not understand her shopping fun.

You do not need to fully understand a person can love him. This is good news for us , because we love God , but I can not understand his deep secrets.

With our thoughts and poor self-centered vision of God we can not deduce what achievements do , and why should he do these things. Because some people will own limited knowledge and infinite wisdom of God compared to that better than God himself to understand the situation of life , only because of the tragedy so far from God .

Indeed, if we can fully understand God, so祂就better than the best of the more honorable man , nor the most intelligent person is more than knowledge , then the Almighty God, what is there to fear it? However , because of tiny humans, can not understand the thinking of the Most High , also shows God's great wonders .

The apostle Paul asked: " Who has known the mind of the Lord to teach him? "( I Corinthians2Chapter16Section ) , of course , nobody can . Even if we can not understand God , is still revered to worship Him, because He totally trusted .JDB


Higher than the main road I Road ,
None other than the profound wisdom of non- primary ;
Face hardships of life ,
Lord give me strength completely .Sper

While we can not completely understand God , but must worship Him wholeheartedly .

You hurt?

If you do not hurt today , you will encounter in the dark before an injured person; his smile , hide a brokenHeart. But you have to grasp this : "He healed the brokenhearted . " We are hurt, because usually turned away, or never ask God first to find . Peter does not believe that after the Lord , went out crying , because he recalled the good fellow with the Jesus

Time , also remembered the words of the master : "You want to deny me thrice . " (Matthew 26:75 ) He is very certain that this thing could never happen to him , but actually happened. You have such experience it!

Maybe you find is in the position previously undreamed : Divorce ? Unemployment? Sick despair ? No longer the will to survive ? Do not solve these problems with those who talk about this matter , so long as to Jesus . Jesus is a heart disease expert , he experienced the storm , suffered hardship . He used all your needs are meet , but you have to look for him , " Cast your caresLordHe will support you . "( Psalm 55:22 ) This does not mean that he was difficult to leave your name , but rather take you through .

Trial

Rich man had a woman charged with murder , the judge sentenced her to death, when she released on bail due to illness recuperation at home preparing an appeal, the fitness was introduced to a lawyer to visit her, and tried to lead France to rescue her, unexpectedly, it was rejected by her , that lawyers had Leave a business card and left. Soon , appeal dismissed, she see the case has failed , this time with signature automatically search the lawyer immediately , unexpectedly transferred to the court that lawyers just Judge , and was sent as the judge handling the case , can not help, the female regret the rich manMo and , think of the date of today's lawyers become judges .

        " man is destined to die once , and after a trial . " ( to 9 : 27 )

        "He commanded us to preach to the people , prove that he is ordained of God as judge of the living and the dead . " (Acts 10 : 42 )

Trial, how terrible it is a noun, as it tried to determine a person's fate or life or death , or torture , or acquitted . I remember after the end of the war , our government had a public trial of Japanese war criminals , the Allied occupation of Japan at the same time , the trial of Japanese war criminals. The results of these trials , many war criminals were sentenced to be hanged, death or severe punishment .This is the Japanese warlords who deserve punishment.

The trial of the world , based solely on your actions are in breach of national law ; and the trial of God , is based on whether the trust in Him you have the son Jesus Christ , which is basically the difference . You might think that people die on , but圣经Tells us that the human body will die , butSoulThe total dead , so after that to trial, by Jesus himself when the judge , to judge the living and the dead .Bible said : "crime , he will perish . " ( statement 18 : 4)

Since the trial is ordained of God , no one can naturally exceptions , but God has through His Word ─ ─ Bible , warning us that wants us to repent , believe in His Son, Jesus worked for us sinners on behalf of the dead , and by Him inCrossOn the flowThe Precious Blood , wash away our sins and injustice, and let Him into our hearts , as our Savior , so that we have His eternal life free from the sink .

Dear friends , Jesus is our lawyer today , He is the mediator , He wants to save our people sentenced to die , as long as you are willing to accept him as your Savior , to Japan His return , He will be triedOfficial position , ruling us from eternal punishment .

Jesus said: " I am the way , truth and the life " , He is the life of the Lord , He will give you a perfect life , through Him, we can remove the demise of the trial , by Him, a blessing to be able to enjoy this life, the joy of eternal life .

Dear friends, you want to get the Christ, the eternal life? Just looked down , pray to God : "Dear Jesus , I believe you are the master of all things created the universe , I admit that many mistakes in life , many of the crime . I am willing to accept you as a life savior . Jesus ChristName request . Amen "( Amen means sincerely wish )

Mother's concern

We last spoke of Rebekah and Isaac finally seek from the Lord that a child , the results of a pair of twins . Twins definitely work together , for example : If you breastfeed, this finally had enough sleep , and that some immediately began to cry . So that feed , eat sleep , and this began to cry , or else they will both cry together . You two at home , they are very quiet , only one home , two men cried together . Mungo once met an American on the street pushing a cart triplets , three grid , which exactly the same baby girl , cute he is . Everywhere everyone sound surprised , but the cart 's father is completely deadpan . You look very cute tired is tired of them, they the children came, she quickly discovered that things are not that simple. That before you feel down when students do not find it hard to ah , once pregnant, in fact easiest time with children is inside the stomach , take them everywhere, do what you can do , at least convenient . Do not cry no trouble , or worry about them eating, drinking, sleeping .

But she the twins ah , even in the stomach is not good to stay inside , the children in her belly to compete with each other . So the pregnant with twins, Rebekah , is a bit more difficult , they often fight in there and hit his mother stomach pain . Montgomery recalled that his wife pregnant, baby hands and feet inside the stomach when moving about , that was fun. Think about two in the fighting inside , that terrible it? Will tear it to his mother , very scary. Extraordinary Young Women speaking in front of Rebecca , just to mention a singularity before the Lord, ask this person was a quiet and Rebekah , but her words are good words . She turns to God saying: 『 If so , why go on living? What she is not to commit suicide , is thinking about this matter and why? I live for? With my two kids finally come to a result two children began playing in the stomach , then after the birth that still all right? She said that I live and why? Why live ? She was not saying I do not want to live, she went to the Lord . People used no Bible, that the God of the Bible , when people ask , God, are related to his answer , because they are our role models . 『 Lord said to her : "The two in your abdomen , the two communities come out from your body , this nation will be stronger than the nation , will serve small to large . " What she asked God a simple question , actually God answered her four sentences , all future plans have already told her. This is where today's short-sighted parents , we often do not want to believe , not believe that God not only in my mind who are there present , in mind I have children who have head to . And the children instead of two , is two ! The two family ! From your body out ah ! Think about how much this is a promise .

We are going to say , this child in this life to how, but God will give you a child , he may have on the plan to the tenth generation , 20 generations, the Bible about a thousand . So God has a very strong mind , parents should this matter very solid foundation , it is not going to the competition between children , you live ah ask why ? Not beaten. Early on to tell us that the Bible has already made it very clear , and we picked Mongolia are: God the Father in the creation of the vision before the photo picked Mongolia . If he picked you, he will not pick pick your child? Only care about you have the confidence to put your children 's future so-called spiritual , God 's intention in them , it will fall into children of God to lead him over, but Haohao De raise them according to this direction . If you had a baby , you do not know God had called on him : family , two family, one country , two of the plan , you will find him to take things one moment and a high white-collar salary Career , do not marry a foreigner, in the future the best place to buy a house , like me, so for life. Children have grown up, my responsibility was up . Your responsibility is really on the it? Your responsibilities simply do not start ! For Rebekah you think about it, this time God gave her the answer to this , she suddenly all the fear , confusion , all are off the ground. God did not give you two children, God is to give you the two communities , the two countries , and the two families , the competition between the two countries must , so how you like them to be brought .

Lord said the two communities , two , you take them brought to the critical moment you want to remember the words of the Lord , many times the child may not listen to you, this is the equipment we have heart . A child out of a sample , here is this child needs you tube, there absolutely no need to worry about you , regeneration of a complete turn . And there is this one that the relatively young age that a child not to worry about their parents , grow up must be very worried about him. So this child's life to his parents worry about are the same proportion . You do not have that little worry for him , he behaved , it will read , he grew up will go wrong . It is very troublesome childhood , growing up along the way along , full of honor 's . That which we pushed open a topic to the children 's education, and how our parents treated us in the face of God and children , you will first see them, you will treat them. You want to know how to treat them before they know how to educate them , this is very important. Treat , treatment , and then only education . The demanding , next time we talk about how to look your children.

Our children at different ages , different stages of time , the parents think the problem is not the same , the problem is not the same worry , there are different stages of their expectations. Children born to our attention that he just is not eat well , sleep well , and then hope he can quickly walk quickly to independence . But the real independence of the candidate , you have worried about him , do not go astray , to have a good learning , good work, good objects, and more . We parents have been really constant worry for our children , but if we see only children present , only this time he faced the problem , where we worry about . Do we have an eternal perspective from our children? Our children have not saved it ? Not know the Lord out? Our children are not able to learn the Word of God , to the old will not depart from it ? Is not able to follow the loyal owners, service to be God? We parents have to do from this point of view of our child? Listeners , we have to learn together.

Serve to the old faithful

There are many men , " the Bible " which this one will have a wide range of light Isaac . Isaac had two children , son named Esau . 

Isaac40At the age of married Rebekah , at that time meditating in his field , sending the servant to his father to Rebecca , Hongo married from her back . It will not stay in the field of Esau . Esau went out hunting on the specialized,His banner banner40Married at the age of the Hittites, the daughter of Billy Judith , and daughter of the Hittite, Toronto Prasit wipe wife . No two individuals , both men saw the name on the wrong , " the Bible " there is a situation that is a positive role in Chinese translation , " Bible " of the time , give him a very pretty name , more negative controversial Role , gave him a not very respectable name. Judith and Pakistan to see that actually wipe , not a good wife. " Bible " to tell them, a wife you worry enough , the two strange daughter together, close co-operation or whether they are acting in collusion , or that fight all day , all enough to make Isaac and Rebekah troubled mind Of the .

Isaac earlier we talked about so many good words , he knows how to compromise , how to dig a well , how the land, not a bit lazy , and without fear . The enemy come to him , God gave him a comprehensive victory , which his family did not expect so many problems. It is said, an old brain is unclear , especially the two daughters you grief , then he too old to fast . So here I were to see a very interesting thing , you dig out a live well , you have to retire , you want , not that you want to retreat to another mouth to live well . You to another place , you have to start digging a well , then you water come from? Livestock drink? In the southwestern United States, Texas , Texas has a lot of oil wells , dug wells that go on , not every oil wells there . Often spend a lot of money , digging down nothing. Now at least have a tool that people used on a shovel to dig so . Dug for a long time , what you do when it stopped ? How do you know it is not water? How do you know it has water?

They want to leave , let , to dig wells, the so-called times of harvest , is to know when the harvest is the harvest times . In that waiting time is also a bitter harvest , and how do you no water ? You kind of go on the land , people kind of are so poor , you really have confidence in ? Last God to give you a hundred times , you are still times where you changed ? Do not know! We see this is very smooth , in fact at the time, you use the ' foreign invasion ' word to describe Isaac home , in fact is no exaggeration ! Home is also a mess , not a good relationship . No matter what the situation , this time they are just moving . Strong people to triad dragon local snakes to , you have to banquet to him , though a false alarm , there is still Tingzhi.

Today, we often feel there is testimony that God really is in peace with in the . In fact, that this time his enemies in peace , did not give him trouble , that is safe . You say how daily life is like ? Heart grief ! He and his wife of Isaac and Rebekah, older age , and then worse. 『 Isaac old, dim eyes , could not see. 』 his family how much you think the problem you? There are health issues. Now the church has this problem , a lot of people talking about good health . Isaac you see so many problems1, with old ;2Eyes dim , not seen . God has no influence with him in ? Not ! God 's own way of God , his wife in the next , the whole situation is like this , their maintenance is not much better care of Isaac , Isaac can not care about their own bodies to focus on the top , but the motive Isaac Do you know God, nor care to dig a well in the end he got no water . He was not the water that day , there were times farming harvest , Isaac will change it? Isaac will not change ! This is the " Bible " to teach us.

Do not talk all day health , and health of synonyms is afraid of death ! Of fear is not from God , if you are genuine service to be good , and you no time to think about this , and has long been indifferent to your life and death . Now when the church becomes a health Assembly out? Why do they sell this regimen is to do MLM , also known as multi-level direct selling . The sales put things straight for you , who do not only not in line with the "Bible" lesson , but dishonest ! They believed in Buddhism , in the temple is also engaged in this , set out in the community , everyone is doing health , Christians are like the people talking in the back of health ! Tune " the Bible " do not speak to talk health , " the Bible " gives us the example of Isaac, old, dim eyes , could not see. He still dedication , and with all the best of Italy, try to - serve the Lord your God ! Is not dedication , and with all the best of Italy, try to - health - to do direct sales , and then serve the Lord your God ! Without this necessary.

How to establish the child's good behavior ( 1 )

If we want to help children develop good behavior , we can by our some of their recognition by some of them correct , to help them slowly come to a right direction. How sure that the specific and correct your child's problem? Many people say that your child will become the kind of person , which is closely related to the education their parents . China, saying that " born dragon, chicken born chicken, mouse son can make hole . "

How should we specifically affirm our child? When our children do well when done right , we let her know that we give and affirmation . Because the children often do not know how the parents think the hearts in the end . So the children did not mind the direction of the parents to tell children that is good , this is not good, when he knew the parents think that is good , that what is bad , he is easier to follow . Some parents did not like some of their rules , so children have a little What everyone is.

First of all, parents have to set some rules , let them know that this is our family rules , taking advantage of a small child when the rule set, if the child is big , it is still not late, never late , in the grace of God Never too late , we can always start all over again . First of all, the rules should you settle down , when a child he was according the rules you set out line , you must tell him, "You do right, you did good " parents must be in word , in the expression Sure the child and let him know that " you do right . " Children need rules to set in your house for example, what is more important aspect , for example, the prayer before meals , a person must have a praise and worship time , prayer at night before going to sleep together , Sunday we must pray . We can put our rules laid down in our home what is most important. Sometimes the rules set at home too much like a court , like , like the military schools, home today to have the warmth of home , parents should think about what our home is the most important , our family Need to abide by the rules you need to settle down . For example, points in the primary school children need to sleep it can be decided by the parents . Children in primary school, parents want to be a manager to help them , in small children when we have to set the rules . Many children the habit is good or bad , is often decided at this stage what they cultivate the habit . As parents, we must be able to affect them in the period to help them build some good behavior .

So for the Christian to the best education for every child on the principle of a return to the Word of God which , in the end how to lead our God , we see how God see us , because we were only back to the Word of God , We have the power go straight ahead . We want to help children establish good behavior , we need to be sure our children , we need to correct our children. That our parents have to think about how God, like in the middle of our lives, to recognize God in our lives how to correct us, God do to us , we will act of God to be our approach to lead our children. The Bible says , I do not despise the LORD, children 's discipline , and do not weary of his blame , because the Lord loves he will rebuke , reproach , as his father loved by children. So parents, we first need to have a teachable heart , there is a comfort to accept God , to accept the guidance of God 's heart .

At home in this environment , when the parents of your mind your mind what will be passed to the child , for example, outside the view of the world is completely different to us , if we know what is pleasing to God , we love the world or anything Lost to follow God, to recognize on their own to . Their willingness to follow God, to our values , willing to be God corrected by God, and lead , if we ourselves have a teachable heart, the eyes of our children to see him there will be such an openness of mind and spirit with this when the child Than the surface, in the end he did not do so would be more important. Our children will be seen from childhood , my parents is an honest person or a person who will lie , my parents is a very selfish person or a very loving person , is a very emotional stability of people , or A very emotional person. Children will see very clearly, so what kind of parents bring up children . Though not necessarily , but sometimes can really create a great impact .

The true meaning of positive and correct in the end what is it? Sure is that when your child to complete the things you gave him or what he had done automatically , you immediately give him a very clear response immediately . Sometimes a child will ever forget for a long time , so when the child has done , we immediately responded to him , he would in his mind under the impression that China and India , he will know this is mom and dad think I am doing good He was sure , he will always do what he had been sure , had been encouraged to do.

Correct the child is that when children do wrong , you immediately correct this is to do good. We correct the child is not called the child , called the child is not correct the child . We first have to understand that certain children and to correct the definition of a child . Parents should use a mind firmly , instead of picking on kids , not scold the child , not praise a child , but we are very calm and stability to tell kids this is , this is wrong.

Sure the child is to give our children direction , to give him confidence . Correct the child is to give them a boundary line is telling him these things not to do , kids to have such a positive and if correct , they will know what things to do and what not to do , when they Grow up , they may be a very law-abiding , very teachable person. Even go the wrong , and someone correct him , he will soon return.

A lot easier on the child 's parents have a lot of punishment and blame . When the child has excellent performance when they could not bear to praise or to encourage him. This is the parents deserve to be re- learning . Parents often have two extremes , one extreme is very strict with their children , children do better, think it is a matter of course , when children do well in tight to me, so that he could progress more, parents Think I love him , hope he is good . But we need to thinking about the feelings of the child , the child 's reaction , so that we can really help to discipline the child progress .

That the other extreme, indulgent child , the child is wrong does not matter , simply ignored him , looking at what he is lovely , especially now that every family has only one child , how to look cute he is even doing bad things , even to other people Take home everything that pretty people , and said , you see he knows what is good things . This is the other extreme . That our parents , not because you love your child to spoil him . In the Bible we see the old Eli , spoiling his two sons , did not correct them they put a curse brought home, this is our parents should take note . 

Father in the family growing role

 Today we talk about the Bible for her father , the mother in helping children grow things on what to teach . Yesterday, teacher recommendations, if both husband and wife Lee views the practice is not the same as when the husband respects his wife . Talked about this time, some people immediately think of the Bible does not mean that the wife should obey her husband , the husband is the wife's head? This is the Bible 's teachings , is not able to implement them in modern life ?
Bible speaks of a double-sided , the first husband to love his wife , second wife to obey her husband . But in real life may not be so good, some husbands may think I love his wife , but she does not obey me . Some wives think that I obey her husband , but he does not love me. This is the Gordian knot through the ages , the public that goes, both parties said that claim to be right . As long as the commitment of a husband you love your wife , you love your wife love to her can not be disobedient , and often encouraged the wife to be able to obey your husband , he had no alternative but obedience to love you , this matter the fact that Is to be practical.

Suppose couple of different ideas on child rearing , children have a double standard in order to avoid confusion , then the first wife according to the standard , because his wife at home for a long time to take care of their children over time , but this proposal does not go against the Bible, the phrase ? I want to tell you that there is no violation . We look at the whole Bible , particularly the history of the Old Testament , Old Testament, four thousand years , to prove one thing , people always betray God . King Saul of Israel 's first king , he should obey God , but at last he had betrayed . Time of the Prophet told him to obey is better than sacrifice , obedience more important than sacrifice . Because Saul was king, but not the priest , he could not go to sacrifice , to sacrifice his offside . Saul makes sense , Saul said: " I have been waiting for you , you did not come to the sacrifice , so I had to sacrifice . " sacrifice than to obey him important , so wrong, King Saul was wrong , but this When God has allowed him to continue to do the king , until the throne of David , the whole country before returning to the command of God inside . When Saul different views of God and God that govern the country should do , but not according to this treatment Saul , God is not going to change soon , God , etc. out of mind out of the second king , the prophet is the same , not all of the Old Testament also Prophet heard the word of God .
When people have a lot of disagreements with God , God is first, respect him , until either you are changed, such as Jonah , God wants him to preach the gospel , he was not , until God and His clear communication , so some took them . So the husband is at home on behalf of Christ , the husband is the head of home , people can not obey Christ , not your wife and obedience , disobedience, when your wife and you have different opinions , you know God's treatment With the approach we are not the same , we now immediately and wife quarrel , and take the Bible out of a fight , but God is not to do this.

Because God do not often come to earth, but these kings , the prophets , the priests go through the everyday world empire , so the Lord allowed them, though you do not listen to me , you first as you do it, God of course Approach to resolve. I encourage all the brothers and sisters , especially a father , if you have a faith of Christians , please remember this, my proposal is not contrary to the Bible , the most important thing is to achieve harmony in the family Bible to us Teach , but also to our people live , beginning in Matthew tells us that " peace of the blessed people ", so harmony is a very important key to the family foundation .
Abraham and Sarah had one thing not agreed, and that is very old in the time of Abraham , God bless him, his wife bore him a child named Isaac , but before too long because No growth . In 14 years , servant to Abraham when Sarah took little wife , sir, a child named Ishmael . When Sarah was born after their own children for fear of Isaac and Ishmael will be bullied , she told Abraham to drive Hagar and Ishmael out , Abraham is very difficult , but how kind of God to solve this problem , and God Abraham to listen to Sarah . So why are not the views of a father and mother, and , in the family inside , to listen to her mother , the model here, God told Abraham to listen to Sarah . How couples cooperate , there is not much advice that will make the couple to talk with , a good prayer , we must carefully reading the Bible, God will give you inspiration naturally .

Of course the other way round , the final test of Abraham, God , bring asked Abraham to offer Isaac on the mountain of God , Abraham and his wife did not discuss the first , because it was God 's command . So the husband should remember that you must have to do certain things , if you insist on God's commands , but insisted the conflict which should not , you have to remember one thing , God, we do not conflict with anyone . You are a Christian , you have to more promising than others, some , God does not want you to conflict with anyone , we do not self- righteous , thinking that I am most lofty , these people really are mortal , there is no such God , God wants us to humble Waist . We insist on our own , we keep more than the others virtue and morality , that we keep in front of God , we are not proud of the world , not so other people do not feel good at home as well. Abraham offered Isaac , he did not discuss with Sarah , because Sarah will not agree , but this is God's command , he took Isaac out , but to the foot of the mountain , he servants are left behind , he himself with Isaac Up , Isaac came up with a problem, where the sacrifice of sacrifice ? Children discovered the problem , before that no one was found . Therefore, a father must have endurance , and sometimes to God , we have to bear the people can not afford . In principle , the general direction of big non- event , the father made for her husband to insist , have to bear . But the little things in the family , the husband and wife worked on both the first listen to the wife .
Husband and wife must maintain a harmonious relationship , nothing can be achieved through communication and exchange to some consensus . If the husband and wife is good, matter whether a lot of discussion . Even if they can not have consensus , you can refer to Li's views . If the husband or the wife that the method does not work, she does not want to have some conflict, for her pray to light her own . If the person is a Christian , she also includes the Holy Spirit , praying God 's words through the Bible , through the Holy Spirit to speak to his wife , and can come slowly to make her see things clearly .

Very much thank the teachers two weeks to bring us a lot of very valuable to share , I hope all my friends especially when the father can better know how to when to God, pleasing to God a good father , of course, his wife The joy of a good husband .