How to establish the child's good behavior ( 1 )

If we want to help children develop good behavior , we can by our some of their recognition by some of them correct , to help them slowly come to a right direction. How sure that the specific and correct your child's problem? Many people say that your child will become the kind of person , which is closely related to the education their parents . China, saying that " born dragon, chicken born chicken, mouse son can make hole . "

How should we specifically affirm our child? When our children do well when done right , we let her know that we give and affirmation . Because the children often do not know how the parents think the hearts in the end . So the children did not mind the direction of the parents to tell children that is good , this is not good, when he knew the parents think that is good , that what is bad , he is easier to follow . Some parents did not like some of their rules , so children have a little What everyone is.

First of all, parents have to set some rules , let them know that this is our family rules , taking advantage of a small child when the rule set, if the child is big , it is still not late, never late , in the grace of God Never too late , we can always start all over again . First of all, the rules should you settle down , when a child he was according the rules you set out line , you must tell him, "You do right, you did good " parents must be in word , in the expression Sure the child and let him know that " you do right . " Children need rules to set in your house for example, what is more important aspect , for example, the prayer before meals , a person must have a praise and worship time , prayer at night before going to sleep together , Sunday we must pray . We can put our rules laid down in our home what is most important. Sometimes the rules set at home too much like a court , like , like the military schools, home today to have the warmth of home , parents should think about what our home is the most important , our family Need to abide by the rules you need to settle down . For example, points in the primary school children need to sleep it can be decided by the parents . Children in primary school, parents want to be a manager to help them , in small children when we have to set the rules . Many children the habit is good or bad , is often decided at this stage what they cultivate the habit . As parents, we must be able to affect them in the period to help them build some good behavior .

So for the Christian to the best education for every child on the principle of a return to the Word of God which , in the end how to lead our God , we see how God see us , because we were only back to the Word of God , We have the power go straight ahead . We want to help children establish good behavior , we need to be sure our children , we need to correct our children. That our parents have to think about how God, like in the middle of our lives, to recognize God in our lives how to correct us, God do to us , we will act of God to be our approach to lead our children. The Bible says , I do not despise the LORD, children 's discipline , and do not weary of his blame , because the Lord loves he will rebuke , reproach , as his father loved by children. So parents, we first need to have a teachable heart , there is a comfort to accept God , to accept the guidance of God 's heart .

At home in this environment , when the parents of your mind your mind what will be passed to the child , for example, outside the view of the world is completely different to us , if we know what is pleasing to God , we love the world or anything Lost to follow God, to recognize on their own to . Their willingness to follow God, to our values , willing to be God corrected by God, and lead , if we ourselves have a teachable heart, the eyes of our children to see him there will be such an openness of mind and spirit with this when the child Than the surface, in the end he did not do so would be more important. Our children will be seen from childhood , my parents is an honest person or a person who will lie , my parents is a very selfish person or a very loving person , is a very emotional stability of people , or A very emotional person. Children will see very clearly, so what kind of parents bring up children . Though not necessarily , but sometimes can really create a great impact .

The true meaning of positive and correct in the end what is it? Sure is that when your child to complete the things you gave him or what he had done automatically , you immediately give him a very clear response immediately . Sometimes a child will ever forget for a long time , so when the child has done , we immediately responded to him , he would in his mind under the impression that China and India , he will know this is mom and dad think I am doing good He was sure , he will always do what he had been sure , had been encouraged to do.

Correct the child is that when children do wrong , you immediately correct this is to do good. We correct the child is not called the child , called the child is not correct the child . We first have to understand that certain children and to correct the definition of a child . Parents should use a mind firmly , instead of picking on kids , not scold the child , not praise a child , but we are very calm and stability to tell kids this is , this is wrong.

Sure the child is to give our children direction , to give him confidence . Correct the child is to give them a boundary line is telling him these things not to do , kids to have such a positive and if correct , they will know what things to do and what not to do , when they Grow up , they may be a very law-abiding , very teachable person. Even go the wrong , and someone correct him , he will soon return.

A lot easier on the child 's parents have a lot of punishment and blame . When the child has excellent performance when they could not bear to praise or to encourage him. This is the parents deserve to be re- learning . Parents often have two extremes , one extreme is very strict with their children , children do better, think it is a matter of course , when children do well in tight to me, so that he could progress more, parents Think I love him , hope he is good . But we need to thinking about the feelings of the child , the child 's reaction , so that we can really help to discipline the child progress .

That the other extreme, indulgent child , the child is wrong does not matter , simply ignored him , looking at what he is lovely , especially now that every family has only one child , how to look cute he is even doing bad things , even to other people Take home everything that pretty people , and said , you see he knows what is good things . This is the other extreme . That our parents , not because you love your child to spoil him . In the Bible we see the old Eli , spoiling his two sons , did not correct them they put a curse brought home, this is our parents should take note .