Today we talk about the Bible for her father , the mother in helping children grow things on what to teach . Yesterday, teacher recommendations, if both husband and wife Lee views the practice is not the same as when the husband respects his wife . Talked about this time, some people immediately think of the Bible does not mean that the wife should obey her husband , the husband is the wife's head? This is the Bible 's teachings , is not able to implement them in modern life ?
Bible speaks of a double-sided , the first husband to love his wife , second wife to obey her husband . But in real life may not be so good, some husbands may think I love his wife , but she does not obey me . Some wives think that I obey her husband , but he does not love me. This is the Gordian knot through the ages , the public that goes, both parties said that claim to be right . As long as the commitment of a husband you love your wife , you love your wife love to her can not be disobedient , and often encouraged the wife to be able to obey your husband , he had no alternative but obedience to love you , this matter the fact that Is to be practical.
Suppose couple of different ideas on child rearing , children have a double standard in order to avoid confusion , then the first wife according to the standard , because his wife at home for a long time to take care of their children over time , but this proposal does not go against the Bible, the phrase ? I want to tell you that there is no violation . We look at the whole Bible , particularly the history of the Old Testament , Old Testament, four thousand years , to prove one thing , people always betray God . King Saul of Israel 's first king , he should obey God , but at last he had betrayed . Time of the Prophet told him to obey is better than sacrifice , obedience more important than sacrifice . Because Saul was king, but not the priest , he could not go to sacrifice , to sacrifice his offside . Saul makes sense , Saul said: " I have been waiting for you , you did not come to the sacrifice , so I had to sacrifice . " sacrifice than to obey him important , so wrong, King Saul was wrong , but this When God has allowed him to continue to do the king , until the throne of David , the whole country before returning to the command of God inside . When Saul different views of God and God that govern the country should do , but not according to this treatment Saul , God is not going to change soon , God , etc. out of mind out of the second king , the prophet is the same , not all of the Old Testament also Prophet heard the word of God .
When people have a lot of disagreements with God , God is first, respect him , until either you are changed, such as Jonah , God wants him to preach the gospel , he was not , until God and His clear communication , so some took them . So the husband is at home on behalf of Christ , the husband is the head of home , people can not obey Christ , not your wife and obedience , disobedience, when your wife and you have different opinions , you know God's treatment With the approach we are not the same , we now immediately and wife quarrel , and take the Bible out of a fight , but God is not to do this.
Because God do not often come to earth, but these kings , the prophets , the priests go through the everyday world empire , so the Lord allowed them, though you do not listen to me , you first as you do it, God of course Approach to resolve. I encourage all the brothers and sisters , especially a father , if you have a faith of Christians , please remember this, my proposal is not contrary to the Bible , the most important thing is to achieve harmony in the family Bible to us Teach , but also to our people live , beginning in Matthew tells us that " peace of the blessed people ", so harmony is a very important key to the family foundation .
Abraham and Sarah had one thing not agreed, and that is very old in the time of Abraham , God bless him, his wife bore him a child named Isaac , but before too long because No growth . In 14 years , servant to Abraham when Sarah took little wife , sir, a child named Ishmael . When Sarah was born after their own children for fear of Isaac and Ishmael will be bullied , she told Abraham to drive Hagar and Ishmael out , Abraham is very difficult , but how kind of God to solve this problem , and God Abraham to listen to Sarah . So why are not the views of a father and mother, and , in the family inside , to listen to her mother , the model here, God told Abraham to listen to Sarah . How couples cooperate , there is not much advice that will make the couple to talk with , a good prayer , we must carefully reading the Bible, God will give you inspiration naturally .
Of course the other way round , the final test of Abraham, God , bring asked Abraham to offer Isaac on the mountain of God , Abraham and his wife did not discuss the first , because it was God 's command . So the husband should remember that you must have to do certain things , if you insist on God's commands , but insisted the conflict which should not , you have to remember one thing , God, we do not conflict with anyone . You are a Christian , you have to more promising than others, some , God does not want you to conflict with anyone , we do not self- righteous , thinking that I am most lofty , these people really are mortal , there is no such God , God wants us to humble Waist . We insist on our own , we keep more than the others virtue and morality , that we keep in front of God , we are not proud of the world , not so other people do not feel good at home as well. Abraham offered Isaac , he did not discuss with Sarah , because Sarah will not agree , but this is God's command , he took Isaac out , but to the foot of the mountain , he servants are left behind , he himself with Isaac Up , Isaac came up with a problem, where the sacrifice of sacrifice ? Children discovered the problem , before that no one was found . Therefore, a father must have endurance , and sometimes to God , we have to bear the people can not afford . In principle , the general direction of big non- event , the father made for her husband to insist , have to bear . But the little things in the family , the husband and wife worked on both the first listen to the wife .
Husband and wife must maintain a harmonious relationship , nothing can be achieved through communication and exchange to some consensus . If the husband and wife is good, matter whether a lot of discussion . Even if they can not have consensus , you can refer to Li's views . If the husband or the wife that the method does not work, she does not want to have some conflict, for her pray to light her own . If the person is a Christian , she also includes the Holy Spirit , praying God 's words through the Bible , through the Holy Spirit to speak to his wife , and can come slowly to make her see things clearly .
Very much thank the teachers two weeks to bring us a lot of very valuable to share , I hope all my friends especially when the father can better know how to when to God, pleasing to God a good father , of course, his wife The joy of a good husband .
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